Why do women play mind games on men?
Is she playing games or not interested?
Why do they like to give us a hard time?
Have you ever wondered why?
More importantly, how do men fight back?
OK, so I’ll admit this much to you… once upon a time (before I had Shogun Method in my arsenal, of course), those questions had really bugged me for ages.
During that time, I had suffered from a particularly traumatic experience with a woman.
It fucked me up real good, I must say.
Maggie (not her real name) was a bona fide hottie. A natural brunette with a well-rounded bum (my fetish!) that would make Jennifer Lopez turn green with envy, I thought she was a real keeper.
I wanted her really badly, and I wished she would love me as much as I loved her.
Alas… she caused me enough stress, heartbreak and trauma to last three guys’ lifetimes.
Thinking back, I’d rather get punched in the face and kicked in the balls than going through the same crap again with a woman. Serious!
Thankfully, I found a (remarkably simple!) solution to the problem which I am going to share with you later below. Before we go into that, there’s something that I want you to know…
Now you may be experiencing the same thing with your woman. (Are you?)
And if you are, I want you to understand the following two things:
First, you’re not alone. I’ve been through the same shit that you’re probably going through now, and so have many other guys. And guess what… we all survived to tell the tale.
Second, it’s not your fault. And here’s why…
Women play games with men because they have this tendency which is naturally built into their psychology. And this is what we are going to discuss next in this guide.
Before you start, though, there’s something that I want you to know.
This guide is quite comprehensive, and has been written in a simple manner that could be understood quickly by anyone. Indeed, if you read carefully and follow all the steps here, you will beat a woman’s mind games – pretty much guaranteed!
On the other hand, given the amount of details in this guide, it’s easy to forget some of the more important points later, and this may hamper your progress somewhat.
Therefore, to help you out, I’ve created a simple Action Checklist which you can download, print out and look at later as a “Quick Reference Guide”. It’s a PDF file which you can download and keep for easy reference.
To download, click below –
Once you have downloaded the Action Checklist, kindly avoid sharing with anyone else, alright?
Great!
Table of Contents
Mind Games Women Play With Men When Dating
Derek Rake (founder of the infamously notorious Shogun Method) once told me:
“Playing mind games is the woman’s natural way to qualify a man’s suitability as a mating partner.”
So, if your woman is playing mind games on you, she’s testing you to see if you’re a worthy partner for her to have babies with. 😉
What are the mind games women play on men?
Well, here’s a short list to start:
- Making guys jump through hoops.
- Playing victim.
- Crying in public.
- Withholding sex.
- Flirting with other guys.
- Dressing up… to see other guys.
- Delaying response to calls or texts.
- Compliments other guys to piss you off.
- Acting dumb and weak so that guys do things for her.
I’m sure there’s more if I sit down and think about what my ex-girlfriend Maggie did to me, but for now this list will do.
Looking back to your own dating life, have there been instances where your woman had played mind games on you?
If you’ve been played – don’t worry, I’ll teach you how to get the upperhand over her by using a very special set of techniques based on Mind Control.
For a free online Masterclass on how to use Mind Control to dominate women, enter your email address below –
You can watch the Masterclass first and then come back – we’ll wait for you. 🙂
How To Beat A Woman’s Mind Games
Now here’s what I want you to understand…
Just because a woman plays mind games on you, it doesn’t mean that she’s a bad person.
And guess what… the same goes for us guys as well. We can play the same game and manipulate women, but that doesn’t make us bad people.
In fact, here’s the truth about dating and seducing women… everything in seduction is manipulation.
Here’s the long and short of it – if you want to win in the game of dating, you’ll have to manipulate women and completely dominate them. No two ways about it!
Now look here…
I’m not in a position to judge anyone for their moral values, and so if you’re uncomfortable with ideas of “manipulating” and “dominating” women, then you should probably go elsewhere now. No hard feelings. 🙂
So, with that said, let’s get on the juicy stuff… and fight fire with fire.
Are you ready?
The “REVERSE-LJBF” Technique
The following technique has been taught to me by Derek Rake (as part of the Shogun Method coaching program that I have been part of for a couple of years now… which I highly recommend.)
Derek calls it the “REVERSE-LJBF”.
Don’t get alarmed with the jargon! 🙂
LJBF simply stands for “Let’s Just Be Friends.”
That’s probably the absolute worst thing that a woman that can say to a guy, by the way. Pretty cruel, too.
So, what Derek recommends to his clients do as a way to fight back women mind games and dominate them is to do a “Reverse” LJBF.
This means that you should respond to her mind games by using the same tactic BACK at her… by putting her in the friend zone!
Get it?
For example, you can say:
From my experience, she will typically respond in one (or more) of these ways:
- Stare at you blankly, like the proverbial deer in the headlights.
- Squirm in her seat.
- Throw a tantrum. (Most common)
- Cry. (Second most common)
- Laugh nervously.
At this point, if you do this right, you should feel the power in the relationship shifting to your favor. 🙂
To make sure that you completely understand this technique, watch this short video below (made by our good pal Fredo “Good Guy” Hill) –
Pretty awesome, don’t you think?
How To Overcome Mind Games Women Play: Step 2!
You shouldn’t quit just because you’re ahead! I want you to really up the stakes and take it to the next level!
You do this by ceasing contact with her immediately.
This means that you shouldn’t take her calls or respond to her texts at all (for at least three whole days.)
Then, on the fourth day, answer her call.
She will inevitably ask: “Why are you not taking up my calls?”
Your answer should be: “Well, I’ve been busy… doing something.”
See what I did there? (Sneaky, I know!)
So you want to be as vague as possible so that her imagination runs wild. You always want to keep her guessing!
Remember… in order to seduce her and make her surrender herself to you, confuse the heck out of her. Let her emotions overrun her rational mind and you’ll be manipulating her like a little doll at the end of the rope.
Does that make sense to you?
Great! 🙂
Finally, Close The Deal By Using This Somewhat Weird Tactic
If you’ve done the first two steps correctly, you will soon find the power in the relationship restored to your hands…
…and yet you shouldn’t rest on your laurels yet, because the battle far from over!
Do this next: ask her out to see you, one-on-one.
(At this point you’d have driven her up the wall so much that she would be dying to see you. You see,women like to “dish things out” face to face whenever there’s a problem for some reason.)
Then, when she sees you, I want you to use Fractionation on her.
If you’ve had some experience with Mind Control and hypnosis-based seduction techniques, then you should already be familiar with Fractionation.
If you’re not, then understand that it’s probably the “grand daddy” of all female Mind Control techniques, reputedly able to make a woman get emotionally addicted to a man in less than 15 minutes.
Yes, it’s that powerful (I have experienced this beforehand, many, many times.)
Fractionation is too lengthy to be described in this (already kinda lengthy) blog post, and so I’d recommend that you watch this short video (created by my good friend Fredo Hill who also happens to be one of Derek Rake’s clients). It’s about a shorter version of Fractionation (dubbed the One Sentence Fractionation) which you can use immediately today on a woman you want to attract.
(Press play, and wait for the video to load. It’s less than 3 minutes long!)
Pretty simple, right?
Try it out today – the results will astonish you, I promise!
Here’s what’s next…
Now that you’ve seen the power of the shorter One Sentence Fractionation, let’s learn the full, balls-to-the-wall version, shall we? Let’s go!
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I want to know how to control my girlfriend – she’s playing too many mind games on me too frequently!
You, my friend, need Shogun Method in your life. Trust me on this.
Tell her you need a break, tell her even though she is sexy as fuck when she is mad at you, your concerned she is doesn’t see how disgusting the behavior is, so you want to pursue someone who appreciates having a real man in their lives, but will always be there to support her as a friend. And then don’t talk to her in anyway for a week, when you do respond and she wants to make plans ask what days that week she is available. tell her you have a commitment already for one or two of the days she mentioned, but are available the third day if you cancel a “fake” pre planned gathering with a couple friends. Give her a time to be ready and be there on time to pick her up. (Throw a hint that she should wear a certain outfit you can remember she has, she will wear it guaranteed). Before ending the call (Do not text these plans with her, this should be done in ONE brief and to the point telephone conversation) as if talking to someone else who is in your presence say “hey!!! give me one second k, I am just finishing a call with a friend” then say to her “ok 7pm Thursday, looking forward to it”… hang up, don’t message her to confirm, or say how excited you are, simply wait until the set date be at her place on time, have flowers and greet her with a kiss on the cheek. Then give her wine smirking and say this is for after the date!. Get in the car and go have fun being the man again…. just don’t fall into anyone of her tactics used to test you!!!! If she cancels, its another game and simply drop her she will never change.
This is some boss as shit and exactly what i needed to hear i’ve already broke contact with her yesterday because she was playing all of these games taking forever and a day to respond to the simplest messages even after we’ve had very passionate and intimate moments (no sex yet) but very passionate even ghosting me for like 3 weeks.
But now that i discovered the shogun method i feel like i have a plan of action and can really get her emotionally aligned with me and just surreneder all of that resistance.
Lol it’s fun to twist a guy around. While you train him like a dog and cheat! Don’t let these wimpy boy’s disused you
Text her at 2am “hey” then immediately text her “wrong number sorry if I woke you” and immediately shut your phone off
This is the most ridiculous episode of concoction poisoning in Princess Bride right? Hahaha. This is complete shit to dupe men to use some formula and not use rational thinking. What woman would fall for such stupidity? Hell no! Not I and when he did that I dropped the guy like a fly. No man is worth the hassle or drama of these stupid mind games. I’m a 9 baby and I won’t settle. The only thing that makes a man below a 7 is ignorance and dishonesty. If you want my affection and sex, man up and be real, genuine, good, hard working and funny. Ain’t no mind game gonna dupe the girl you want into becoming subservient. We will naturally be subservient, blow you every nite and ride you hard willingly all nite long when you up your character and be a noble respectful guy.
WOW I AGREE. IF A GUY THINKS THAT HE HAS TO PLAY THESE MIND GAMES WITH A WOMAN THEN HE IS OF POOR CHARACTER. ANY WOMAN THAT FALLS FOR THESE MIND GAMES IS OF POOR CHARACTER ALSO AND IS NOT WORTH PURSUING. JUST BE A MAN, CHILL, DONT TRY TOO HARD AND JUST BE YOURSELF. BUT I STILL STRUGGLE MEETING WOMEN MYSELF.
Females are just mentally AND personality wise f*cker up. Too much bullsh*t, and GAMES, and not to mention the assh*le bitches they just all are. Im tired of it and females. Females make REAL RARE GREAT MEN give up. Us REAL ones are sick of it.. females (b*tches) dont care I got it. Sadly now. Females are just assholes and bitches period and arrogant and fake and stuck up and jerks and idiots. They just don’t know how to notice REAL RARE MEN OR just let a real rare great man just have what he wants… a relationship, a slim attractive beautiful nice body AND BEAUTIFUL PERSON AND GOOD WOMAN AND NOT BLACK. But that’s completely impossible. Attractive slim white or asian or other race females are just impossible stuck up stupid up blind retarded mentally f*cked up, impossible racist assholes and bitches.
Rick, I’m sorry that you’ve had bad experiences with women. There’s light at the end of the tunnel. Believe me.
That tunnel is called TunnelBear
Ok so I’m sorry you’ve had such bad experiences… though aren’t you also being very superficial right now? At least, that’s what it sounds like, ‘a slim attractive beautiufl nice body’, ‘attractive slim white asian or other race females’ does honestly sound like you do care less about their personality than you should. I personally think that no one should play these games, but if there are men like you that SEEM to be so superficial, then of course women want to figure out a way to find out whether a man really likes them or not.
Do you get what I’m saying? Cause I really hope you do.
These tactics aren’t for everyman to use on every women just for fun and games, they are for men who have a kind playing manipulative women in his life who he wants to not walk away from, but be a man that she is obviously looking for anyways, if guy’s do use dirty games to control women that’s just sick. But your right be a man and be alpha male for her, that’s what we are designed to be. It’s also a way to help the men who have fallen subject to mind games, and get them back in the confident mind frame they were in before the abuse/test/games started. … unless your saying there isn’t any women that ever play mind games to get what they want from a man?
you sound like a woman who would play a whole bunch of mind games. An what you want is a guy that can put up with your crap. I don’t care how good you look, I would drop you like something that burns my hands. First and foremost a man needs to be some one who himself could respect.
What’s even more interesting than that, is you read the blog. If you leave me on read for 20 minutes I’ll leave you on your birthday. Then we’re even.
I had this 28 years old girl for almost 2 years, maximum I probably lived peacefully with her was 1 whole week. She will constantly create problems out of thin air, for reason or without reason. She was a serial cheater too, she played me so hard that I lost jobs for her and lost my whole life, and when I try to move on she will come and corrupt all my plans and again slam me to the ground hard. She got me vibrant man and she threw me a chewed up bone. I did all good for her, she never recognized 1 good thing at all, knowing she was not working and had nowhere to go. I wasted thousands of dollars on her, at the end she ditched me just like trash. I just hate women now, and if I could I would great harm to anyone of them that crossed my path.
Amen
1. Get a dog
2. Don’t pay for sex, pay them to leave
3. Love is lust
4. 1/3 men will probably face some form of caution or criminal charge over a woman. They’re not worth it.
5. Use them for a son for your empire.
Women work like this;
If you’re right, you’re controlling.
If you’re wrong, you’re a bastard.
Looooool
Fuck their logic. 😂
Wow. So Cal, does that mean a woman can do this too?
You know, some women don’t want to play games and they end up being hurt. Why?? Because guys are so afraid of commitment.
The problem is that the roles have been reversed . Women are trying to be men and vice versa . It is not a woman’s world . Ladies , just because you filter and photoshop your pictures online to look like a 9 when you’re really a 4 , doesn’t mean you have power . Just cause you have push up bras and black tight pants , doesn’t mean you call the shots . Guys out there . Listen up ! Get a grip . Pull your balls out of their purses . Regain that masculine control . Let these pseudo broads know in a very rude direct but cocky way, that their manipulation will not be tolerated . Why ? Because you said so . Do not fear her “ leaving “ She needs you more than you need her . Oh and you feminists ? Lol .
Have you ever seen a “ supermodel “ with no make up , no fake lashes , no toothpaste first thing in the morning ? In the real world ?
I have seen quite a few . It’s not the be all end all . In fact it’s quite perception changing . You know how different they look without these online filters and mac make up ??? Why put them on a pedestal ? Does it make you as a man look better ? Or richer ? No . It has the opposite effect !
Have they , the women earned it ? No. Feminism has been proven useless and ineffective as a sub culture . Guys time to stop being the little passive aggressive schleprocks and take the reigns . Guys become good looking . Work on your looks . Improve them . Become more outcome independent . Be nice and kind when they deserve it . If not ? Replace them , and let them know you will do so ! Bottom line boys , are you going to humiliate yourself and “ need” these 3’s dressed up as 9’s for just for a piece of va Jay jay that is not anything out of the ordinary … Like really think about it ….
Best damn advice ever!
Lol well everyone’s turning gay obviously. It’s pretty much because of all the b.s. that guys say now women don’t really need men especially since gay marriage is legal. If you start a war over it you’ll just lose everything anyways. Get used to being alone.
This is great if you are into shallow, superficial relationships. Some men just want a hot body, they treat women like sex objects. Some women just want a man to buy them stuff – they treat men like objects too. I am interested in a real relationship with a real person, so I don’t play games and I avoid men who do.
I met this guy, we had a ton in common, I was treating him with respect and expected the same. He started playing mind games, and pulled the “let’s be friends” sh*t. I took him at his word and said, “Sure”. Like I said, I don’t play games. If a guy tells me we are friends, we are friends. I moved on, and now I have a boyfriend. Someone who doesn’t play games with me.
My boyfriend texts me every morning to wish me a good morning. On nights we don’t have a date, he calls me to see how my day was. I feel safe, secure and happy. I try to give him the same respect and consideration he gives me – this is a mature relationship between too mature, imperfect people. I am not a perfect 10, he is not a millionaire. We are both just normal, wonderful, deep human beings.
What is funny is now the guy who wanted to be my friend is acting jealous and weird. I’m sorry, he is in the friend zone and will never be removed from the friend zone.
I don’t have time for players. And here is the thing – there are players among both men and women. If you want a real relationship with a nice person, you actually have to go beyond the superficial and get to know the real person. That means if you’re a guy who is fixated on a woman’s appearance, or if you are a woman who only cares about how much money a guy makes – then you of course will be stuck playing all these stupid games and have to do the whole power trip.
For myself, I was realistic. I am maybe a 6 or 7 in terms of appearance. But I’m smart, funny and easy to get along with. I don’t play mind games. So I found myself a guy who is a 7 in terms of money – he works hard and has a decent job but he’s not rich. But he’s also smart, funny and a sweetie. He makes me feel cared for. When I have a rough day he will cook me dinner and rub my neck. When he has a rough day, I give him a blowjob. For some reason, this makes him very happy, and it makes me happy too… 😀
I am very up front and honest with guys. And I’ve found someone who is the same way. I think eventually like attracts like. So if you are a good, decent, honest guy – don’t give up and don’t sell yourself short. Maybe though look at women who are not perfect 10s – there are plenty of nice women who might be a few pounds overweight or who don’t have perfect hair or whatever, but might be kinder, more generous in bed, low drama, etc. If all you care about is a woman’s appearance, don’t be surprised that you attract mostly psycho b*tches. Same with men – if a woman cares most about a guy’s money, she shouldn’t be surprised she attracts mostly a**holes.
Take heed… this is how a woman thinks!
“Poor men try figure out how to win the game women play on them. Confident men who are rich in mindset, taking risks and have options, focus their attention elsewhere if the woman plays games. Have options always. The poor man tries to handle them. The rich and strong in mindset doesn’t.
Society has been making excuses for women for a long time. with “women play games because it’s how they are wired.” Everyone plays games, transactional games and you never win by playing back.
You win by not playing the game and walk away to keep focusing on building your own resourcs to attract them and to take far more risks so a man has far more options than the poor man who is orbiting around one woman because he lacks options, and is always on the plane of scarecity.
If you had five women, hot women pursuing a man, you think that man gives a damn about a woman playing mind games? He won’t have time to bother playing back. He’ll re-direct his attention elsewhere and leaves her to her own confused mind to realise he is far different than the rest.
Let them shit test some poor man who has no optons. When you have status, the women will be crawling on their knees for you. They cannot help but pursue status and that for even an average looking man is power over them.
Avoid being passive aggressive and and speak out your boundaries, and if they persist, move your focus on someone else. Let their pedestal crash down because it is their biological clock ticking not yours, they will suffer the consequences more than men will.
I am sick of the mind games that women play. Sick of it! Thank you, Cal!
Welcome! Remember: You can always fight back with Fractionation!
I was just asking myself why men suddenly loses the interest on me, when they see I don’t like to play those mind games (cause it’s impractical and a waste of time). Then I find this misjudgement about women… In a manner, it helped me to understand that I was generalizing men’s behavior too; I think I only found the wrong kind of men, like those who believes and pursues this kind of mediocre theory. Thank You, Calpont.
You’ll be lucky if a man finds that you’re worthy enough for Shogun Method to be used on you. Be grateful!
No woman is worth having to put up with all of this bullshit. Walk away when she starts and save yourself a lot of trouble. Once you’ve done this a few times, you will know just how universal this is and stop caring if you have a woman in your life or not. Then you can enjoy YOUR life.
This is the dumbest thread I have ever read. If you are a real man you won’t play games and if you meet a woman who plays games she is immature and isn’t ready for a real relationship. Hopefully you have grown up since writing this.
Triggered much, babe?
Not at all helpful. The “mind game” my EX is playing with me has absolutely NOTHING to do with either of our appetites for sexual gratification. The game my EX is playing with me, IS far more sinister. We have to go back in time a bit. My 2nd wife passed away suddenly, in December 2014. After my Wife’s Memorial, I had to seek out someone to take care of my dogs because it became absolutely impossible for me to rely upon in-law relatives to take care of them and allow these people into the home I had built, for my wife with thoughts they were equally entitled to have full access, to everything in the house and garages. In a word : how would you feel, if you pulled into your driveway and found your Brother-In-Laws beater P.O.S. Pontiac blocking the garage door, where you park your Lexus and find out that he ‘ borrowed ‘ your wife’s Maserati, without permission? So I hired a woman, 10 years younger than I. Her task was simple : take care of my pooches. The UKC was already adopted and leaving the country soon. Then she would only have to take care of my AKC Pit. Everything was cool. Even when I came home to find neither of them at home. Instead of leaving him in that ‘Mausoleum” of a home, she would take him home to a simple 2 story,5 bdrm,3.5 bath, house. And her Dad seemed to get along with him. As the months went by, my Dog Sitter was able to manipulate my thinking and convinced me to sell my rather expensive home for less than it was worth. At that time, people did not have that kind of dough to invest in a house like mine. She in turn, convinced me to invest in a smaller, 3 bdrm, 3 bath house, only 1.5 miles from her Dad’s house. And in that short time, she was able to manipulate herself from sleeping at home, to sleeping on my custom made Sleep Number King. And for several months the sex was exceptional until her Father passed away. And since she did not know if he had a final expense policy, I , with my correctly brain washed with pussy, picked up the tab. And she failed to reveal, that she had already received the insurance money. And soon enough, she convinced me to move into the house her Dad owned but left to her. I decided to have a property rental company take over my house and to add it in with my other rental properties. And she made me absolutely insistent upon making her $1400/month house payments for her, as well as all the utilities and home entertainment services. I am glad I have really good lawyers as they prevented her from selling controlling interest in my own company, when I was hospitalized in the ICU. Now, the good part. She manipulated me into releasing $250,000 into her name, which she used to buy a new home in South Carolina. And while I was still making house payments for her, she had contacted a PROPERTY AUCTIONEER and had her Daddy’s house sold for $175,500 UNDER appraisal cost. I eventually caught up to her and she was able to convince me, not to press charges for Grand Larceny, Theft and Embezzlement. But now, I am staying with her, while waiting on the courts to decide how I can recuperate the $788,626 she relieved me of, while I manage 2 additional companies down here. And recently, I have started a friendship with a divorced ,Mother of 1 and My Manipulator recently discovered I had been entertaining this very cute, strawberry blond and because I showed signs of being ‘happy’, my Dogsitter, hunted down this woman, used coercion to manipulate her to stay away from me. What kind of HEAD GAME MANIPULATION is this called?