So tell me, how to flirt with a girl you like?”
I think I must have heard that question more than a thousand times over the last seven years as a dating coach.
If you want to learn how to be a good flirt with the ladies then you’re at the right place. I can guarantee that you’ll absolutely love what you’re going to see here next.
Why am I so sure?
Well, it’s because the stuff I am going to share with you is nothing like you’ve ever seen before anywhere, guaranteed.
It’s different (and more importantly, far better) than the usual yadda yadda that you find elsewhere on the topic of flirting with women…
This is a huge promise, I know, and yet as you continue below, you’ll discover that what I say is true. So, keep reading!
Learning How To Flirt With A Girl You Like Can Be Hard
Let’s face it… it can be pretty hard to find legitimate information about flirting these days.
Try hitting Google with search terms like “how to flirt with a girl you like” or “what to say when flirting with a girl” and you’ll get all these junk “Pickup Artist” (or commonly known as “PUA”) sites.
Let’s be real here. “Pickup Artist” stuff can get pretty lame.
I mean, look at these “flirting tips” they dish out that are entirely useless and downright laughable…
“Make her laugh!”
“Smile at her confidently!”
“Ask her about her hobbies!”
Look… if you want to get ahead, then do what the best of us do: avoid Pickup Artist sites like a Zika virus infected mouth.
Enough of Pickup Artist crap. Let me show you what really works about how to make her want you, and want you badly.
Why Do You Want To Be A Good Flirt?
Before we get into the meat and potatoes of this guide, there’s something that I need you to ask you first.
Why do you want to be a good flirt?
(That’s not a trick question. Take some time and answer it honestly.)
You see, before anything, you’ve got to set your priorities right.
I’ll be completely honest with ya…
If you are looking for the latest “ninja” flirting lines or seduction techniques to use on a woman so that she “likes” you, then you’re making a mistake.
Trust me. That kind of tiny, “Pickup Artist” mentality will not get you anywhere fast.
You’re undervaluing what being a good flirt will do to your dating life.
Here’s the bigger reason why you want to master the art of flirting…
You want the ability to create Intrigue inside the woman you want to seduce.
Re-read that sentence, because it’s uber important!
You want to master the art of flirting so that you have the ability to create Intrigue inside the woman you want to seduce.
In short, forget learning how to flirt just to impress women and make them “like” you. (That’s what amateurs and “Pickup Artists” do. Pathetic!)
Here’s why: getting a woman to “like” (or even “love”) you is meaningless.
Sure, a woman might just fall in “love” with you today. What makes you think that she won’t fall out of “love” with you just as easily tomorrow?
If you still have the misconception that “love is forever”, well, slap yourself silly with a large trout. That’s not how the real world works.
Take it from me. You don’t want a woman to merely “love” you.
You want her to be emotionally ENSLAVED to you.
(When a woman is Enslaved to you, then her love for you is a given.)
And even better, when she is Enslaved, she won’t be able to quit you, because once she is enslaved to you, she will depend on you to survive (at least emotionally.)
So how do you Enslave a woman to you then?
Glad you asked! 🙂
This simple four-step roadmap is known as the IRAE Model which is found inside Derek Rake’s Shogun Method.
We’ll talk more about the Shogun Method later.
For now, it’s enough to understand that the first step to Enslavement is creating Intrigue (or “I” in the IRAE Model.)
Now this ties back beautifully with what we have discussed about flirting so far.
You need to know how to flirt with a woman for one purpose only – to create Intrigue.
See where we’re going here?
To summarize our progress so far:
- You should not be flirting with a girl just to make her “like” you.
- Rather, you should be flirting with her for one purpose only… to create Intrigue.
- Once she is Intrigued, you can then proceed to Enslave her.
So far, so good!
How To Flirt With A Girl You Like – The Essentials Important
So how do you flirt with a girl to create Intrigue then?
Quite simple, actually.
To flirt with a girl and create Intrigue, observe this one important rule –
You want the conversation to “take off” as soon as possible.
Consider this example of a conversation which “falls flat” instead of taking off –
Guy: “May I know your name?”
Guy: “Thank you. My name is Patrick.”
Guy: “So how are you?”
Girl: (faint smile)
Guy: “So what are you having?”
Of course, you could do a lot worse, like this –
Guy: “Hey, may I ask you for your opinion?”
Girl: “Worst pickup line, ever.”
Or downright pathetic –
Guy: “Hey, did you see the two girls fighting outside?”
Girl: “Who cares?”
Now, compare the above with the following interaction which “takes off” (with the use of Intrigue Pings which I will describe to you below) –
Guy: “Hmm… maybe I shouldn’t ask you this because I might just regret it…”
Guy: “Alright then, since you’re so persistent! What’s your name?”
Girl: (smiling) “Kitty.”
Guy: “Kitty, as in, a pussy?”
Girl: “Haha. I hear that all the time.”
Guy: “Well done, Kitty. You’ve just passed an important test! You’re now confirmed as a friendly person. As a prize, you can now shake my hand.”
Girl: “Haha!” (shakes hands)
Guy: “Kitty, meet my best friend and eternal partner… myself! Patrick, this is friendly Kitty. Don’t do anything funny, you crazy kids!”
The reason why this conversation “took off” is because the guy used an Intrigue Ping .
You can say that Intrigue Pings are the magic ingredient that will completely transform you into a master flirt.
In the above interaction, the opening line (“Maybe I shouldn’t ask you this because I might just regret it…”) is an Intrigue Ping.
Here’s why Intrigue Ping works like gangbusters…
Once you have delivered a good Intrigue Ping, the conversation will flow quite naturally.
The interaction becomes easy because once you get her talking (which is inevitable after you Intrigue her), she will carry the weight of the conversation as much as you do.
Now, to give you a quick kick start, here are a couple more Intrigue Pings you can use when you flirt with a girl:
“I shouldn’t ask you this, but…”
“I think I’ll regret this later, but I need to ask you…”
(In a bookstore) “I’ve got a feeling that you’ll like this book…”
(In a boutique) “You’ll look fabulous in yellow. Try this…”
Now, Take Your Next Logical Step
Fast forward to the future…
If you’ve followed everything I wrote above and did everything correctly, and you’ve mastered the art of delivering Intrigue Pings, something magical happens…
You will have the superpowers to make any woman Intrigued with you in record time (seconds, not minutes or hours!).
Just close your eyes and imagine how that will feel like. I can wait. 🙂
Feels good, doesn’t it?
And yet, that’s not the end of the story yet.
Remember that Intrigue generation is just the first step you take to make a woman emotionally ENSLAVED to you.
You’ll need to take the other three steps (remember the IRAE Model I mentioned above?) so that you make a woman yours forever.
These advanced steps are in Derek Rake’s Shogun Method.
To take the next logical step and get started off on Shogun Method immediately, go here:
Once you clicked it, wait for the page to load completely.
(It can be slow to load because it gets a lot of attention these days. Once you’ve seen Derek’s stuff, you’ll understand why!)
When that page loads, you’ll see an optin form.
Derek needs your email address so that he can send you the link to a free training on Shogun Method.
Once you entered your details, the link will be sent to you.
Do it now – your future self will thank you for it! 🙂
ADDENDUM: Some readers have emailed me to complain about how “manipulative” this material seems to be. Well, given that I wrote the de facto guide on “how to manipulate women“, I guess their feedback have fallen on deaf ears…
DONOVAN RICE says
How do you know when there’s enough intrigue to move on to the next step?
Kinda hard for me to summarize the entire thing, but I’d recommend that you go to https://shogunmethod.com/ for the full Shogun Method course.
How can I use an intrigue ping at the gym ?
Thanks in advance.
Which intrigue ping should i use if i know a girl a little bit