Meeting a great woman is not a big deal. The world is filled with amazing women who crave to be appreciated, cherished, and taken care of (really, it’s like a Kitten Giveaway Festival out there every day). It’s only a matter of finding the one that is right for you (that part is tricky.)
Once you’ve found a great woman who also happens to be right for you, dating her requires imagination and initiative. A guy square enough to choose “dinner and movie” routine twice in a row should at least have the courage to invite his date to see the same film all over again: this way the two of them can ignore the screen and enjoy each other.
Keeping a great woman is art. I am really good at it: through years of experimentation and failure I’ve discovered a foolproof way to make a girlfriend want to stick around (and yes, it involves how to manipulate women’s emotions and make them addicted to you.)
Are you paying attention?
If you want to keep a girlfriend, make sure to hold her. By “hold her” I do not mean “lock her up and have German Shepherds patrol the perimeter”. This is not the kind of holding I teach.
No, when I say “hold her” I mean, literally, hold her in your arms. Hug her. Embrace her. Squeeze her. Bring her body close to yours and apply pressure.
How much pressure to apply depends on a woman’s unique preferences. As Madonna put it correctly, “Some girls, they like candy, and others, they like to grind”. I like both kinds… and I know that these both kinds are usually contained within the same woman… so the best way to hug her really depends on the situation… and on the mood… and on the number of drinks the two of you have had tonight… can someone please stop me from typing another ellipsis?
Hugging In The Context of Enticing & Repelling
A hug is a paradox: it contains elements of violence and protection in equal measure. It thrills and relaxes a woman, and communicates your commitment as well as unpredictability.
Be even more unpredictable: vary your hugs. You have a great range of hugs to choose from: full hug, semi-embrace, a “soul brother” hug, a hug from behind, the classic “bear” hug, a simple and innocent arm-around-her-waist hug. You can hold a woman’s hand or both hands while hugging her, or cup her knee… or something else. (Of course, if you’re astute enough, you’ll recognize that this is the push-pull principle which powers up Fractionation, a Mind Control seduction tactic).
One of the greatest things about hugging is that women usually hug back the guys who hug them. Don’t know about you, but being hugged back always makes me want to stick around for more.
The hug is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. A guy’s mastery of the hug is a bound to make his girlfriend want to stay with him through thick and thin – unless one day she meets another guy who gives even better hugs. Then the first guy is screwed. Or maybe he isn’t, depending on how much more he knows about the art of keeping a girlfriend.
I would write about it right now, but I gotta go and get hugged. So I guess you’ll have to stand by for the next article on keeping a girlfriend.