You are going to meet the woman of your dreams, and so you are nervous and you don’t know how to act. Now you wished you had some practice before, but it’s too late. What should you talk about to show that you are not a complete idiot who never dated anyone smart or sexy?
OK, relax… since it’s actually a lot easier than you think. The first time after you asked the woman out to do something on a date, it should be uniquely interesting. You want to leave a good first impression so that she wants to see you for the second time.
What’s Important On A First Date?
First of all, be yourself. Listen to the woman, but be yourself. It’s not that you will scream “Hey biatch, let’s go shagging in the privy”, that’s not what will turn her towards you, neither will it be some fluff talk where you seek approval the whole time.
Be yourself, talk about interesting stuff you do, leave that whole job application style at home and don’t let the date turn into an interrogation. Examples:
- How old are you?
- What do your parents do?
- What’s your income?
- What kind of guys do you usually date?
- Do you have boyfriend? (Exception: if you want to use boyfriend destroyer techniques on her)
Those are all no-goes on the first date. Just enjoy yourself, have a laugh, talk about people you see, stuff you have been up to lately, great hobbies, things you love (not your ex-friends!) and whatever speaks your mind. It can even be about dating and how hard it is to find an interesting women. Or, veer into something slightly sexual like how to kiss a woman!
If everything else fails, keeping your mouth shut is an option!
Interesting Topics For First Dates
Or, alternatively, how to flirt with a girl
Now you may run into a problem, you may not have an interesting things to talk about, well there is only one good way to change that – change your life to the better. Write down a top five list of what you wanted to do, or better, a top ten list. The most interesting thing to do would be to actually do all the stuff you wrote down!
In case you are in a hurry you can do the next best thing: just talk about how much fun for example surfing would be and that you are planning your next vacation to be at a nice beach with a surf course. Some interesting hobbies could be extreme sports, cooking, arts, your rock band, … to cut this short, just something that shows that you are a real human with hobbies that make you attractive.
To make you understand this better, people never want what they can get easy, this has been found out in psychology and sociology, so don’t be someone that’s easy to get when you keep on acting as if the women is something special and you are not. It’s equally hard for a woman to find a good man as for a man to find a good woman.